Skip to main content

Annie Lord

Annie Lord is a dating columnist for British Vogue and the author of Notes on Heartbreak.

Everything I Learned About Dating in 2024

I Can’t Tell If I Actually Want a Relationship, or I’ve Just Been Programmed to Think I Do

I’m Worried I’ll Be the Last Single Person in My Friendship Group

Why Do I Still Think Playing Dumb Makes Me More Attractive to Men?

I Used to Think Getting Older Meant Becoming Less Attractive. Actually, I’ve Never Been More of a Heartbreaker

The Era of ‘Exciting’ Sex Is Over

How Much of Yourself Is Too Much to Put Into a Casual Hookup?

The Older I Get, the Less Interested I Am in Will-They-Won’t-They Relationships

On the Indulgent Delights of Singledom

Why Can Boys You Knew in High School Still Make You Feel Like a Teen?

Everything I Learned About Dating in 2023

Why Do I Get the Ick When Men Open Up to Me?

Am I Missing Out By Cutting Men Off At The First Sign Of A Red Flag?

A Case for the One-Night Stand

The Moment I Got a Summer Body, I Didn’t Care About Having One Anymore

Am I Too Weird to Date Long-Term?

I’ve Deleted the Apps. Why Does Dating Still Make Me Feel So Disposable?

The Desire for Sexual Connection Guides Virtually All of My Decisions—And I Don’t Regret It At All

What’s Happened to the Male Orgasm?

How I Learned to Embrace the Thrilling Uncertainty of Situationships