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Tom Rasmussen

What Is an Acceptable Age Gap In Relationships?

Dispatch From an Open Marriage

Is There Such a Thing as Cheating in an Open Relationship?

Letter from an Open Marriage

What If My Partner Is Having Better Sex With Someone Else?

Letter from an Open Marriage

Can You Ever Successfully Have a Relationship With an Ex?

Letter from an Open Marriage

What Comes After Codependence?

Love Notes

The Sexiest Part of an Open Relationship? The Rules

Love Notes

Dispatch From an Open Marriage: So, You Want to Attend a Sex Party

Why This Tiny Copenhagen Bakery Is Considered One of the World’s Best

Love Notes

Dispatch From an Open Marriage: Does It Mean I m Unattractive If My Partner Wants to Sleep With Other People?

Why I Went to Berlin—Yes, Berlin—For a Wellness Break

The 25 Best Sex and the City Quotes

What an Episode of Bad Botox Taught Me About Bodily Acceptance

Can Sex Bridge the Political Divide?

Why I Had a Potluck Wedding—And You Should Too

How to Be Good at Sex

Why Is It So Hard to Talk About Money?

Love Stories

What My May-December Relationship Taught Me About Love

How a Couple’s Trip to Mykonos Made Me Reconsider My Definition of Luxury

How Having an Open Marriage Made Me Think Differently About Monogamy

I Couldn't Help But Wonder ...

Is There a Secret Cold War Between Marrieds and Singles?