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Read Gloria Steinem’s Original Story for Vogue on Attending Truman Capote’s Black and White Ball

Truman Capote at his Black and White Ball at the Plaza Hotel New York with its guest of honor Katherine Graham then...
Truman Capote at his Black and White Ball at the Plaza Hotel New York, with its guest of honor Katherine Graham, then publisher of the Washington Post.
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As the day approached, there was a growing conviction—false but intriguing— that the invitation list was not just friends but a new Four Hundred of the World. Pressure from would-be guests became enormous, especially from those who were strangers to the host but felt their social status alone entitled them to go. Truman resisted, but the requests, even threats, finally forced him to cut off his phone and retire to the country.

The week before the party, international guests began arriving in New York like family-of-the-groom for a wedding, and caused the same string of accommodation problems and pre-party parties. A whimsical rumor that we were all being called together for some purpose—probably the announcement of the End of the World—spread by magic or telephone. Jerry Robbins wondered if we weren’t on the list of those to be shot first by the Red Guard. Kenneth Galbraith said no, not as long as he was on it.

Torrential rains made the End of the World seem possible, but at eight o’clock the Capote master plan began: hostesses, chosen by Truman, received ballgoers in groups, pre-arranged by him, for dinners at home. By nine, his thoughtful combinations of old and new friends were launched on a thorough and unjaded good time. Before the party began, it had already gotten off the ground. Marion Javits, forgetting her painted-on mask and sequinned eyebrows, discussed politics earnestly with her dinner partner Walter Lippmann. At Mr. and Mrs. Leland Haywards, Mia Sinatra leaned against her husband’s shoulder and explained that she was the brains in the family. Alvin Dewey answered questions about problems of the Clutter case, just as dignified and direct in the Paley dining room as he had been in Kansas during the murder investigation in In Cold Blood. Cecil Beaton performed the warm and gentlemanly feat of remembering everyone, even slight acquaintances, and putting them instantly at ease. Mrs. George Backer gave her dinner party as calmly as if she hadn’t spent a hectic afternoon at The Plaza, supervising the ballroom decoration which she had designed.

Arriving at the ball, guests were already in high-spirited groups; no solitary couples searching desperately for someone they knew. The host and his guest-of-honor, Kay Graham, greeted each one before plunging them into the great black-and-white spectacle of the ball, a color scheme inspired by Cecil Beaton’s Ascot scene for My Fair Lady. Feathers, ball gowns, masks, and jewels, all whirled round what Truman chose as “the only truly beautiful ballroom left in New York”: The effect was like some blend of Hollywood, the court of Louis XIV, a medieval durbar, and pure Manhattan.