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How Tolu Oye Pays Homage to Her Culture Through Her Hair

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“I am inspired by the beauty of Nigerian culture,” the Lagos-born, New York-based entrepreneur says. “I use my hair as a moodboard to share a story about the past and the present. My hair is a form of art and my way of channeling my inner being.” 

It took time for Oye to feel completely comfortable with herself, and her hair. Growing up in Ohio, “I was often the only person of color in the room, and when I wasn t, I was the darkest shade,” she recalls. “I had to toughen up really quickly. For so long, I did not identify myself as beautiful. I hated the skin I was in.” In the 6th grade, her teacher made her read The Skin I m In. “I saw myself in the main character, Maleeka. That book was a turning point for me. From that day forward, I spoke with my head up,” she says. “To this day, I always hear my mother s voice in my head, saying, ‘Tolu, you re Black and shine!’ I had to learn how to love every piece of myself.”

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“Me and my mom. She's been braiding my hair since she gave birth to me. It's amazing how we still bond over me sitting in her salon chair or on a pillow on our living room floor. Sometimes I even travel back to Ohio just so she can run hands through my scalp and play catch up. If my mother isn't doing my hair, it's my friends Helena Koudou and Chinna Njoku.” 

Photo: Courtesy of Kyle Meeks