A Retrospective of Humans of New York’s Viral Met Gala Photographs

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“She always responds with empathy. She meets anger with empathy. She meets hate with empathy. She’ll take the time to imagine what happened to a person when they were 5 or 6 years old. And she’s made me a more empathetic person. I had a very fractured relationship with my father. Before he died, she made me remember things I didn’t want to remember. She made me remember the good times.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton

The Met gala is known as the Oscars of the East Coast. It’s the Super Bowl of style and fashion’s biggest night, and every year the paparazzi flanking both sides of the red—or pink, depending on the theme—carpet are a testament to the boldface names in attendance.

It’s a big night for New York, and major celebrities clamor for invitations, but when Brandon Stanton, aka Humans of New York (HONY), agrees to come inside and photograph some of the attendees, it’s always with mixed feelings. These are not his people. He’s known for documenting the lives of everyday New Yorkers after all, not the glitterati. That said, with two New York Times best sellers under his belt, 10.2 million Instagram followers, and almost 18 million Facebook likes, he has one of the largest and most-engaged fan bases going and is about as NYC as it comes. He also has a way of pulling meaningful quotes out of his subjects, whether they’re standing in the midst of a bustling city or at a cocktail party. In the same mild manner in which he approaches strangers on the street, every year Stanton has photographed the Met—since 2014—he has managed to extract thoughtful, revealing quotes that speak to gala guests’ love lives, habits, and fears.

It’s often said that New York is a city of high highs and low lows. As the epicenter of the COVID-19 crisis, it’s undoubtedly struggling right now, and the city’s attempts to prevent the spread of the illness meant there was no Met gala on the first Monday in May. With all of this in mind, we’re reflecting on some Met gala highs in the hopes that they bring a little much-needed escapism and some hope.

Here, we’ve rounded up some of the most memorable HONY Met gala moments over the years.

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“She always responds with empathy. She meets anger with empathy. She meets hate with empathy. She’ll take the time to imagine what happened to a person when they were 5 or 6 years old. And she’s made me a more empathetic person. I had a very fractured relationship with my father. Before he died, she made me remember things I didn’t want to remember. She made me remember the good times.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“My biggest remaining goal is to be a mother.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“I grew up outside of Miami. It wasn’t easy to be young, black, and gay in my neighborhood. It was a very masculine space. All the guys played basketball or football. They wore oversize clothes. There was a clearly defined idea of what it meant to be a man. And I spent a lot of energy trying to meet that standard. I didn’t like sports but I played anyway. If I ever got bullied for acting feminine, or hanging out with girls, I’d take it to the extreme and insist on fighting. The black man is expected to be a rock. I think it comes from our history. We were abused for so long, I think there’s a resistance to ever being vulnerable again.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“At some point in every relationship, it’s hard to not feel like your partner saved your life.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“I feel like I’m just starting, but I think I’d be fine if it all went away. I get that from my mother. From the moment I started singing, she always reminded me that all of this was a privilege, and could be taken at any moment. So it’s not how I define myself. I try to keep my identity rooted in my friendships and my faith.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“It’s the best thing that ever happened to us. But having a child is constant company with terrible conversation.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“She has so much courage. Every fucking day. No matter what she’s facing, she will never burden anyone else with it.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“He’s so sexy. And he taught me the importance of being silly.” “Being silly is so important. Silly is the opposite of grief. It’s throwing yourself into a moment without care. You can’t always maintain your status as a dignified person. It gives you blinders. When you always expect the world to fulfill your expectations, it wears you down. It closes you off.” “So sexy.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“She has the biggest heart. Everyone sees her success as an athlete, but all of that is layered on the size of her heart. She gives 100 percent of herself to everything she does: as a friend, as a lover, and soon, as a mother.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“He lets me pick food out of his teeth.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“I grew up in India where a woman got married, settled down, and kept a house. I never thought I’d do anything different. I lived a very sheltered existence. I went to a British school, then a women’s college, and then I met my husband. I assumed that I’d be taken care of for the rest of my life. But shortly after we came to America, my husband slipped into a coma and lingered for another 15 years. We had a small child at the time. I’d never worked before, except for a part-time job in the bookshop at the Met. I was a very quiet person. And suddenly I had to make all of the decisions. I had to get a full-time job. It was empowering. I learned that I could be fearless, I could be angry, and I could fight. These were three things that I’d never had to do before. I was thinking recently that if my husband had lived, he might not have liked who I’ve become.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“I’m a fashion associate. I come from a family of doctors and lawyers, so I do feel frivolous at times. Fashion is a luxury. I know that everyone gets dressed in the morning, so clothing is a necessity, but a dress like this is not even for the one percent—it’s for the .001 percent. But there’s something magical about that. When I was a little girl, I put pictures of these dresses on my bedroom wall. It’s what I aspired to. And this dress was somebody’s dream and vision. Fifty artisans spent thousands of hours making this. That doesn’t seem frivolous to me. That seems like servitude and artistry. It’s people doing what they love.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“I’m afraid we’re moving toward an environmental apocalypse where everyone is going to be living in slums and I’m going to be a 60-year-old woman gasping for breath.”Photographed by Brandon Stanton
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“We always tell each other: ‘Whatever form you came in, I’d love you.’ ”Photographed by Brandon Stanton