Weddings

The Bride Wore Alexander McQueen for Her Wedding at an Iconic New York Bookshop

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They sent out tasseled bookmarks as their invitations. The overall aesthetic of the wedding, which Sierra planned herself—with an assist from Quinn Levine, who stepped in as a month-of coordinator—was meant to feel a little spooky. “I kept using this word!” Sierra explains. “Perhaps it was the October timing, or my obsession with the wedding scene in Beetlejuice, but I loved the idea of our wedding looking eerily beautiful and haunting, as opposed to a fairy-tale feeling.”

Two years before Sierra and Galen were even engaged, she fell in love with a tulle resort 2017 Alexander McQueen dress embroidered with colorful poppy flowers. “I’m an avid gardener and quite nontraditional, so I knew it was the dress I wanted to wear to my wedding, but it felt preposterous to purchase it with no plans to marry,” she says. “Once we set a wedding date, I was on a mission to track it down—and it was nowhere to be found.” Eventually, Sierra had the creative idea to call the McQueen outlet in Cabazon in the hopes that they might have seen it. “A wonderful saleswoman searched and searched and located it for me!” she says. “The only catch: It was several sizes too large. I reached out to tailor extraordinaire Bill Bull, who performed surgery to make my dress fit perfectly and also create my veil.” She paired the dress with white satin Manolo Blahnik heels.

In lieu of a traditional aisle, Sierra descended the French Consulate’s stairs to the tune of “Hungry Eyes,” played by a live string quartet. The bride and groom stood in a doorway that bridged the consulate with the Albertine bookshop, while their 140 guests surrounded them. A friend officiated, weaving both religious and cultural traditions into the ceremony. “We thought critically about which traditions aligned with our values and ditched the ones that did not,” Sierra says. “In my vows, I said, ‘As a feminist, I do think it’s worth acknowledging, why get married at all, why buy into this patriarchal institution? I believe there’s great power and strength in proclaiming loud and clear to our community that, as equals, we will do whatever we can to support each other.’ This thinking certainly informed our ceremony.” Then, to welcome Sierra into their family, Galen’s relatives gave her a Chinese name—a great honor. “Galen’s cousin explained the significance and presented my new name during the ceremony, with a personalized calligraphy scroll drawn by Galen’s uncle,” Sierra says. “We also both stomped on the glass at the end of the ceremony—a feminist take on a Jewish tradition.”