Indian and Korean Traditions Came Together at This Micro-Wedding in Palm Beach
The night that Sue Jin Lee, the director of partnerships and audience development at Women’s Wear Daily, and Amit Seth met in New York’s Meatpacking District was filled with many mixed drinks and almost ended with a missed connection. “When I first saw Sue Jin I was taken aback,” Amit, an executive director at J.P. Morgan, admits. “She is so beautiful but also quite erratic and very loud. First, she turned me down for a drink, then she dragged me out of the bar only to tell me she was late for a date.”
“It was [actually] Amit’s friend who had approached me first,” Sue Jin remembers. “He asked to buy me and my college roommate a drink. We politely declined. Then, Amit came up to me trying to stir up conversation. At first, I wasn’t interested. He seemed overzealous and very extroverted. I declined any offer for a drink or small talk. But after several attempts and cocktails later, we began to converse, and although he did not seem like my type, I thought he was very handsome. I [eventually] dragged him to Soho House across the street. When we got to the bar there, he tried to learn more about me. I told him I tended to gravitate toward more introverted people and those that are very grounded. As I told him the qualities I admire in others, he realized he checked all the boxes. [And then,] just as we started really getting to know each other, I remembered I had another date I had already committed to just one hour later.”
Before parting ways, Sue Jin saved her number in Amit’s phone as “Suejin-you-have-a-big-ego”—and that’s how it’s still saved to this day. “I was a few drinks in, and her first impression of me may not have been ideal,” Amit reveals. “But I left determined to see her again.”
Within a matter of weeks, he knew she was, in fact, the one. So much so that he saved the program from the first ballet they attended together. Two-and-a-half years later, they were on a balcony at the Mezzatorre Hotel in Ischia, Italy, when Amit took out the program from that ballet and tried to propose to Sue Jin. “She was so hungry that she walked out off of the balcony to grab lunch—I wasn’t even able to get to the proposal in,” Amit remembers.
“I was starving and tired [from traveling],” Sue Jin recalls. “And, all of the sudden, Amit took out a ballet program from one of our first dates—Romeo and Juliet at Lincoln Center. I was so puzzled as to why he had brought it and why he was taking it out of his bag. Growing more impatient and ‘hangry,’ I didn’t even give him a chance to propose to me. He had to yell out that he was asking for my hand in marriage, and I suddenly burst into tears and nearly blacked out with joy.”
Flash forward to life back in the U.S., where Sue Jin and Amit had relocated to Florida after the pandemic began in March of 2020. After spending a few months in quarantine, Sue Jin realized she wanted to have their wedding in Palm Beach. Initially they set the date for December 12, 2020 and planned a small ceremony for just the two of them and their parents. “I work for a fashion publication, so even if it was going to be a very intimate ceremony of six or a wedding of 300, there was never a doubt that the location and fashion choices were the most important aspects of the planning process to me,” Sue Jin says. “During quarantine, my days included a daily run in the morning and walks in the evening—and I fell in love with the island’s Lake Trail and the jaw-droppingly beautiful gardens and fountains. When I stepped onto the gardens of the Norton Museum of Art, I knew this was it. The NMA has gorgeous modern art and architecture, but also a tropical sculpture garden that gives the venue such a sense of place and lushness. So we were set—or so we thought.”
As the wedding date drew closer, the couple started to worry that their wedding day would forever feel incomplete without their siblings and extended families present. “Amit’s siblings and family members all work in hospitals, so we decided to postpone and give ourselves a few months to see if the situation would get better,” Sue Jin says. “After hoping for the best, things actually improved! It’s amazing how in three short months so much can change.”
In that time, the majority of their guests were able to get vaccinated, and a new date of March 20, 2021 was set. The Norton Museum of Art was still the place, and all 21 Lees and Seths were able to get together for the first time since COVID-19 began.
