Weddings

At Marcos Fecchino and Tucker Brown’s Sicilian Wedding Weekend, the Dancing Continued Until Sunrise

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Photo: Gioconda and August

The morning of the wedding day, a group of 75 guests hopped into the Mediterranean for a swim out to a nearby island. “The wedding-day swim is a tradition in our family,” shares Tucker. After a day of lounging by the sea, the grooms suited up together in relaxed-fit tuxedos by P. Johnson Tailors. “We wanted to keep the ceremony simple but still social,” explain the grooms. Guests arrived for cocktails against the backdrop of the water as a jazz quartet played. Then the pair walked out hand in hand with their parents to Gregory Porter’s “If Love Is Overrated.” “My brother, Nick, officiated, which made the whole experience very familiar, cozy, and special since he knows us both so well,” says Tucker. Marcos’s siblings Fefo and Catalina gave readings during the ceremony. After exchanging vows, the couple recessed to George Michael’s “Faith.” Marcos adds, “We thought it was the right choice for a gay wedding.”

Guests enjoyed an aperitivo featuring Sicilian antipasti and an oyster bar along the sea, before heading to the reception in a string-light-filled courtyard. Dinner featured the grooms’ favorite meal, veal Milanese, and speeches from Marcos’s best friend, Pilar, and Tucker’s dad. Next up? “The party moved to the dance floor to commence a 10-hour dance marathon,” share the newlyweds. “At 1 a.m. when the ‘main’ wedding party concluded, guests were lured with tequila shots and espresso martinis to the ‘rave cave,’ a dungeonlike space at the venue that had been outfitted with lights and smoke machines to set the tone for the after-party. Stefan, flown in from Sweden, played disco and upbeat dance tunes to keep the party vibes high.” Around 5 a.m., the grooms’ friend Jack Simonds took over the tracks to wrap up the party. “At sunrise, with music still at full blast, the late-night crew (over 50 guests strong) moved to the beach for sunrise swimming and dancing, before the last holdouts finally called it a night (or morning) around 8:30 a.m.,” share the grooms.

As they look back on the beautiful weekend, the pair say they feel grateful: “We wish we could live it all over again.”