The Bride Wore a Three-Tiered Patchwork Veil for Her Unconventional Wedding at a Greek Amphitheater in Michigan
Shawn Lakin and Matthew Spector (known as Matt to family and friends) attended the same kindergarten in Birmingham, Michigan. But after Matt’s family moved to Los Angeles, they didn’t officially meet until they were both 14, while on a ski trip in Colorado. The teenage sparks flew, and within a day both had set their Facebook statuses (it was a different time) to “married.” They kept in touch for years, sending happy birthday and happy Valentine’s Day messages back and forth, and in 2017, when, as they put it, they were “finally in the same place at the same time,” an official romance began. In September 2022, Matt proposed by filling the couple’s LA backyard with yellow flowers in an homage to Shawn’s favorite movie, Tim Burton’s Big Fish.
“Late one night, early in our relationship, I put Big Fish on for Matt, which he had never seen,” says Shawn. “I fell asleep, and when I woke up he was cradling me and sobbing at the end of the movie.”
From the beginning, Shawn and Matt knew they wanted their wedding to be “really precious and thoughtful,” and rife with personal touches. They decided to have a hometown wedding on the grounds of Shawn’s alma mater, the Cranbrook School in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan. The entire 319-acre campus is an official National Historic Landmark, but Shawn zeroed in on one area in particular: the school’s Greek Theater, a neoclassical stone amphitheater. “My sister did Once on This Island there one summer,” she says, “and I’ve always wanted to get married there, in the round. I’d never seen anyone do it there before.” And so on August 26, 2023, they did just that, after planting the ground with countless yellow solidago flowers as a nod to their proposal.
The Greek Theater provided a theme. First up were invitations designed by the couple’s friend Jon Anthony, who had previously provided the graphics for their small pickling business, Picklesome. Anthony rolled out slabs of ceramic, stamping them with text, to create ancient-looking sculptural invites. They were both distinctive and heavy—Matt’s brother Mason’s wedding speech included a joke asking what the hell everyone was supposed to do with them. “I texted all my best friends saying, ‘Whatever you do with these invitations, don’t tell me. I don’t want to know,’” jokes Shawn. (Her parents put one in their garden, to use as a stepping stone.)
The Greek theme continued with custom food sculptures by Zélikha Dinga of Caro Diario Paris. Zélikha came up with the idea of creating edible Greek urns, made from cheddar cheese, along with an ionic column ice sculpture. For a Mediterranean appetizer, she invented a tomato lagoon—a custom structure featuring separated lines of cherry tomatoes, olive oil, and farmer’s cheese, for dipping.
For Shawn, a stylist and model who previously served as a senior fashion editor at Document Journal, finding a dress that felt “vintage but completely unique” was key. She turned to young British designer Paula Nadal, whose custom dresses have a historical feel, often featuring corsets and bustles. For fabric references, Shawn sent the designer screenshots of Elle Fanning’s ornate 18th-century costumes in The Great. Over the course of a series of fittings, they created a buttery corset gown with pillow bolsters, a flower blooming at the chest, and a long three-tiered veil. The top tier of the veil was made with patchworks from antique veils, including a piece that once belonged to Shawn’s mother—pearls from which were also hand-stitched into the trim. She paired the dress with champagne satin Manolo Blahnik heels.
