Imani Kai and Austin Dean’s romance began with a Facebook friend request. “We met through our mutual friend Shane back in 2012 when we were both in college,” Imani, who is now a global PR associate for Tiffany Co as well as the founder of a jewelry brand called Goude, remembers of her first encounter with her photojournalist husband. “I didn’t think much of it when he sent me the friend request, but we messaged back and forth and decided to get together the following day.” He was attending Bowie State University and she was home in Bowie, Maryland, for summer break. “He pulled up to my house in his 1997 Honda Accord, and I’ll never forget walking out of my garage and seeing him sitting on the trunk of his car in cut off shorts, mismatched socks, and distressed Vans,” Imani says. “I instantly thought, ‘Wow, he’s so cool.’”
When the summer came to an end, it seemed as though their courtship had as well. Imani returned to school in upstate Maryland. The two remained friends but didn’t talk much. “Then one day he called me, and we talked for like three hours,” Imani says. “We spoke every day after that and made it official when I came home for holiday break.” Once they graduated, they began navigating the world of adulthood as 20-somethings in a long distance relationship. “We never lived in the same city,” Imani says. “We were always having to travel at least two hours to see each other.”
After almost six years together, the distance really started to take its toll. They broke up and didn’t speak or see each other for almost a year. Then, in 2019, Imani moved to New York to take a job at a fashion brand. Austin reached out and discovered she’d moved to the city. “He came up to visit for a weekend, and we had a lot of talks, mainly about how we still loved each other and how we could still envision our life together,” she recalls. “About a month later, he told me he was moving to New York, and we started all over again, but this time as mature, independent adults and not college kids. Sometimes it’s good to give things a second chance!”
They got engaged in March of 2021. “I feel like I always knew Imani was ‘the one,’” Austin says. “There were hella times when I just stopped and looked at her like ‘Yea, I’m going to end up marrying this girl.’” He worked with Majee, a New York City-based custom jewelry designer, to create the perfect ring. “Imani and I had a trip planned to Miami, and I decided that was the perfect moment to actually propose,” Austin says. “Trying to plan from another state was a lot though, so I had an epiphany: ‘Why not propose on the plane?’” This way the two could treat their trip to Miami as a celebration as soon as they touched down.
“I had the ring in my pocket the whole time we were at the airport, and was so nervous she would see it,” Austin admits. “I gave the stewardess a look, and she gave me the thumbs up. The captain made an announcement, and then I pulled Imani into the aisle, popped the question, and presented her with the ring at 30,000 feet in the air. She said yes and the whole plane went crazy with applause. We got a picture with the captain and crew. Imani was speechless. She literally didn’t say two words until we got to the hotel room, and I turned around and she was on the floor bawling. That’s when I knew I had really taken her breath away. I was just so happy I could give her that special moment. I’ll cherish flight 1249 forever.”
The wedding was planned for April 1, 2022 at the VisArts Gallery in the couple’s home state of Maryland. “We wanted to have the wedding in Maryland because it’s where we’re both from, and it’s where our relationship began,” Imani says. “We searched for a venue that spoke to our love of art and culture. VisArts was our first and only venue visit, and we liked it because it wasn’t super grand, nor super plain. I wanted very minimalist decor and because of all the amazing art exhibits, it didn’t take much to make the venue look like something.”
They tried not to overthink anything. “We just went with what felt right to us,” Imani explains. “We went for a modern, minimalist theme incorporating only two colors: black and white. We planned all of the details ourselves, and we were thoughtful about making sure our families felt involved in the process as well.” On the day of the wedding, planner Margie Bennett stepped in to handle production.
