When heading off for any international travel, one of the biggest questions I find myself grappling with while packing is whether or not I should bring my engagement ring. While I’m someone who wears my engagement ring every single day, if I’m planning to do any activities that are particularly touristy, I know that I’m more likely to be the target of pickpockets if I have a sizable diamond on my finger. (I’m not talking three-plus carats here, but my 1.5-carat marquise does look particularly large on my size 4.5 ring finger.)
Another factor to consider is most jewelers advise to not wear any engagement rings in the pool or ocean to not erode the setting or lose it forever to the sea. However—a big but—I absolutely love my ring, my wife, and want to have our symbol of commitment be a part of my vacation outfits. Plus, we just got legally married this year, have a big wedding coming up, and I low-key love having the ring bring up the topic of conversation.
Intrigued before my recent trip to Barcelona for bridal week on how to proceed, I posted a question on my Instagram stories and received a variety of responses from my married and engaged followers. Some said they always traveled with their real ring. “What else is insurance for,” noted a friend. Others shared they just travel with their wedding band or will decide whether to bring it based on the destination. A few noted they had their engagement ring lost or stolen, so they never will bring their real ring again. But a good amount admitted they found inexpensive copies of their rings via Amazon or Etsy that allow them to keep the look of their ring without having the risk of losing something with so much sentimental and monetary value. (A quick peek on Amazon showed me I could find a copy of mine for the whopping price of $16.99.)
Intrigued on whether I should give cubic zirconia a shot when I headed abroad, I spoke with a few jewelry industry pros to see if a travel ring might be the best solution.
The Pros of Wearing a Travel Engagement Ring
If minimizing risk is your goal, wearing a dupe while on your travels might not be a bad idea. “Travel engagement rings are the perfect solution for jet-setters who want to enjoy their adventures without worrying about loss, theft, or damage to their real ring,” shares Olivia Landau, fourth-generation jeweler and founder of The Clear Cut. “Whether you’re snorkeling in the Maldives or navigating a bustling city, it gives peace of mind.”
Landau’s jewelry company even offers a complimentary lab-grown diamond travel ring with the purchase of a natural diamond engagement ring. “Cubic zirconia and moissanite have long been popular choices for travel rings—they offer a diamond-like look without the high cost or concern of loss. More recently, lab-grown diamonds have become a go-to alternative,” she explains. Currently, lab-grown diamonds are about a tenth of the price of natural stones. “While they aren t natural, they can be a more elevated option for those looking for something that sparkles like a diamond but doesn’t carry the same emotional or monetary significance,” says Landau. “Remember, your travel ring should feel fun and easy—a beautiful stand-in that captures the essence of your real ring while letting you live life a little more freely.”
When to Wear a Travel Engagement Ring or a Wedding Band
Since wearing a fake version of your engagement ring might still bring attention to you as a target, you can also consider traveling only with your wedding band. “If it’s about maintaining the stylistic look of your engagement ring while minimizing risk, a travel ring can be a great solution during an adventure trip or beach vacation,” says Hannah Florman, owner and fine jeweler of Hannah Florman Fine Jewelry. “If your priority is safety or discretion—such as avoiding theft or loss—a simple wedding band is often the best choice. I love recommending a solid gold or delicate pavé band that still feels meaningful without drawing attention.”
Not yet married? You can always wear a spacer ring if you want to wear something more minimal and you don’t yet have a band. “When adventure calls, simplicity is key,” says Florman. “Jewelry doesn’t have to complicate your travel experience. With a few well-chosen pieces, especially those you feel confident and comfortable wearing, you can feel polished and protected wherever your journey takes you."
How to Travel With Your Real Engagement Ring
Of course, it is okay to travel with your real engagement if you take extra steps to ensure its safety. “If you’re traveling with your natural diamond ring, make sure your insurance is up to date and keep it with you—never in checked luggage,” says Landau. “I always recommend taking it off during high-risk activities like swimming or hiking and storing it in a secure place, like a hotel safe, when not in use.” It’s also a good idea to be conscious of having it stand out if you’re traveling on public transit or crowded areas. The jeweler adds, “That said, more and more of our clients are opting for a travel ring because it eliminates the need for those extra precautions altogether.”
