Weddings

Babba Canales Celebrated Her Anniversary With a “Love Party” in the Stockholm Archipelago

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The next day, guests chose between a kayaking expedition along the nearby islands, volleyball, tennis, yoga, sauna, running or power walking—each activity led by another guest who was an enthusiast. “This is one of the hacks we brought with us from our wedding: engage your friends for everything from activities to DJ’ing to explaining how to eat Swedish crayfish,” Babba says. “People get way more excited about showing up and giving it their all when it’s a friend that gets to flex their expertise, whatever it might be.”

Later, most guests enjoyed some free time before the dress code switched into “Khaki Expedition” and neckerchiefs from the Swedish brand Hermine Hold became a mandatory accessory. As the clock struck 1 p.m., everyone gathered by the harbor to find 85 bicycles awaiting. They were about to embark on a six-mile bike ride through the storybook setting that is Utö island. “We had been intentionally vague about our destination, so as we got closer to the hill leading down to the beach and our guests started to hear a band playing live music somewhere close by…a lot of excitement built up! Once on the beach, there was a BBQ buffet, picnic blanket, and a stage worthy of the setting, featuring the incredible family band Crying Day Care Choir. It felt like walking into a movie,” Babba remembers. Guests were served Swedish delicacies with sparkling wine or beer to cool down, and once they were settled, the concert began. After the set concluded, some of the braver guests ran into the ocean before the bike back.

Later that evening, guests reconvened for predinner drinks, a DIY crayfish party, and lots of impromptu dancing. “Crayfish dinners are a big tradition in Sweden and an experience we wanted to introduce our international friends to,” Babba says. “They include a lot of singing, schnaps drinking, toasts, and games.” To prepare beginners, Carl’s sister created a songbook that also included instructions for how to devour a crayfish, alongside some table games.

“About 10 minutes into the dinner, people were on the tables singing and challenging each other to rounds of schnaps and drawing each others’ portraits in our songbook,” Babba remembers. “And while Friday’s dinner had been very heartfelt, the night was all about partying!”

Once dinner wrapped, guests stumbled back up to the community house, which had been transformed into a nightclub with neon lights and back-to-back music sets by the couple’s friends. “You could almost touch the energy in the room as everyone got down,” Babba says. That dance party closed at 1 a.m, but the night was still far from over. “Utö is one of the rare islands in the archipelago that actually hosts its own nightclub—a destination for sailors and neighboring islands,” Babba explains. “Here, the party went on until 3 a.m. before guests made their way back to the cabins—where there may or may not have been after-parties.”