Jesse Light Wore Three Vivienne Westwood Dresses to Marry Jesse Bongiovi at a Wild Flower Garden in the English Countryside
While growing up, Jesse Light and Jesse Bongiovi never crossed paths—although their dads certainly did. For more than 40 years, the bride’s father, Rob Light, has been the agent of the groom’s father, singer Jon Bon Jovi. (She spent her formative years in California, while he was raised in New Jersey.) But in 2018, Light, who is now head of development for the production company Haymaker East, went to the Hamptons for the first time. She was dying to go to the famed Surf Lodge in Montauk, and with a little help from her dad, she was connected to someone she thought could get her in.
Fast forward to Jesse Bongiovi, the founder of Hampton Water Rosé, telling Light and her nine girlfriends: “Not a chance.” To be fair, it was Labor Day weekend and the toughest door to get into. Light—unaware of how exclusive the venue was—somehow managed to get in with her friends in tow and walked right up to Bongiovi and introduced herself. The two Jesses have been together ever since.
“We truly feel like we have been connected by an invisible string our whole lives,” Light says. “There is an ancient Chinese myth that explains how people are connected. The story goes that the god of love and marriage attaches an invisible red thread to the ankles of two people who are destined to be lovers at birth. The thread can stretch and tangle, but it will never break, and it will eventually bring the two people together. Not only have our dads worked together for over 40 years, but our paths have crossed multiple times. Whether in cities we’ve lived in at the same time, events we’ve attended, or even Las Vegas for our 22nd and 21st birthdays…we were both at the club Omnia in February 2016 as our birthdays are just three days apart—yes, we have the exact same name and basically the same birthday. Afrojack was DJing, and they kept bringing out ‘Happy Birthday Jesse’ signs…we had no idea they were repurposing the signs for one another until we found pictures years later…we’re literally in the background of each other’s photos.”
Four years after their initial meeting, the couple was back in the Hamptons, the very same place where they first fell in love. “It was a typical Saturday at Jesse Bongiovi’s family home and Jesse and I were getting ready to head out for the day,” Light remembers. “The Uber had ‘arrived,’ and we made our way outside to find the front lawn covered in flowers and candles. Jesse Bongiovi got on one knee, proposed, and then called for my dog Bella who ran from the wings and surprised me along with my entire family from California.” The Bongiovi-Light clan then made their way to Surf Lodge—where the newly engaged couple first met—for an impromptu engagement party.
A few months before the wedding, Bella tragically passed away. It was incredibly important to the couple to have her at the wedding, so Light tied her dog tag to her bouquet. “We without a doubt felt her spirit as the forecast said rain every single day, and we believe she brought us sunshine,” the bride says. “Her energy was radiating throughout the weekend.”
The wedding took place at the end of June at Soho Farmhouse in Oxfordshire, England. “Since 2016, my mom and I have been doing an annual mother-daughter trip to the Farm,” Light says. “Upon our first arrival, it was immediately the most magical place we d ever been. I m sure a big part of that had to do with the fact that I was there with my mom, but there is also just something incredibly special in the air. It is stunningly beautiful, you are surrounded by animals, there are endless activities, and it feels like an adult summer camp. It became my dream wedding venue and I hoped one day I d get married there.”
After Light and Bongiovi got engaged, she took him to the Farmhouse for the first time. “He immediately looked at me and said ‘I get it. This place is perfect.’ The idea of having all of our favorite people together for three days on the most gorgeous property was a dream we were so lucky to make a reality. Our guests were able to walk, stumble, or bike home from the parties, and during the day, they could play tennis, horseback ride, mini golf, skeet shoot, lounge by the pool, and everything in between—nothing could ve been better. We even had guests feeding the goats in the early hours of the morning after partying a little too hard—it got a little crazy and we wouldn t have had it any other way. Soho Farmhouse was everything and more.”
