Burning Sage and the Sounds of a Moroccan Drum Greeted Guests at This Wedding in Marrakech
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There was an instant connection when Tori Elizabeth (the cofounder of The Colored Girl, an empowerment community that’s 65,000 women strong, and a cofounder of the e-commerce shop Wilde Indigo) and Keegan Phillip (a financial tech sales manager at PitchBook and the cofounder of HareClub, a men’s self-care company) started messaging each other on Tinder. After a couple of months of texting, they went on their first date at Corner Social in Harlem. “The sense of humor I showed via text was not my in-person vibe and all of his jokes failed drastically,” Tori says. “But Keegan being Keegan, he was determined to be liked and he asked me to another spot after dinner called Red Rooster.” There they went salsa dancing, and they laughed like crazy while trying to learn the moves. That night they thought there was no romantic chemistry, but it was the beginning of a real friendship. From then on, they were each other’s go-to.
Eventually, something shifted in their relationship. “During this time Keegan tried to have his cake and eat it too—he wasn’t ready to retire his bachelor card, but I was not down for the okeydoke,” Tori says. “So we decided to continue keeping our options open and remained friends. Which didn’t last long because we both don’t like sharing and are low-key-crazy. So after we both stated that we loved each other during our Valentine’s Day date…Keegan got some sense and asked me to officially be his girlfriend on leap day, February 29, 2016, and the rest is history!”
After three years of seeing each other, Keegan took Tori on a surprise date to the Brooklyn Botanical Garden. While taking photos of her in front of the torii gate in the Japanese garden, he got down on one knee. “Keegan put the ring on the wrong finger because he was shaking nervously, and I was like, ‘Babe, wrong finger,’ and he was said, ‘Sorry, I’ve never done this before.’ He finally put the ring on my finger and asked me to marry him. Of course, I said, ‘Yes!’” Tori remembers.
After celebrating their engagement, they turned to wedding planning. “We are very good friends with the owner of Dar Sabra Hotel in Marrakech, and we felt the architecture, scenery, and color palette was perfect for our wedding vision,” Tori explains. They worked with the Maëv wedding team to orchestrate everything with a goal of utilizing rich jewel tones balanced with nudes and neutrals.
Tori had all three of her looks custom-made. “Being a non-traditionalist, I wanted to create a runway vibe rather than the standard bridal look,” she says. Her ceremony dress was a long-sleeve, high-neck hand-beaded Albina Dyla gown with a long tulle train added for dramatic effect. She paired the detailed dress with simple Jeffrey Campbell heels. “I opted for a green jeweled headband and dainty stud earrings to keep the accessories minimal as the dress and matching gloves already had a a lot of details,” she says.
When guests—all wearing semiformal or formal attire in midnight blue—arrived at the ceremony, they were greeted with the scents of burning sage, frankincense, and myrrh, along with the sounds of a Moroccan drum.
The aisle was made up of white Moroccan rugs, lined with burning torches, and the altar was a custom built circular stage surrounded by tan pampas grass. Guests were seated in a semicircle around the altar, so everyone had a good view. “Our wedding party stood behind us in formation on the steps of Dar Sabra,” Tori says. “Our 24-year-old flower goddess was in the center in all white to add balance and regality to the wedding party.”
